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What I love about steppin’ is that everyone’s dance is different. I absorb from every partner so I try to dance with someone new, someone different every chance I get. My time on any dance floor is a challenge to improve my following… my dance. There is always a vibe and silent code for steppers to respect each other even when partners years apart in experience come together to dance. It’s etiquette.

Taboo and Sonji Chicago steppers dancing

All the time, I hope my dance partner wants me to be able to follow what they give me and I in turn hope for a good signal and lead to keep us looking good. My best dances are with those that “feel me out” to see what I can do but then take the opportunity (in a single dance) to push me without instructing me.

So, please gentlemen take the time to gauge my level of dance and don’t make fun of what I know or don’t know. Believe me, some have done so but I am not easily discouraged by words or actions.  On the floor and off, let’s respect the fact that we’re all different people with different styles trying to grow and realize new levels within ourselves.

We are all learning … even some “heavy hitters” still need to figure out how to encourage a new stepper without overwhelming them. Jamaicans say, “Respect my level.” It’s all about steppers’ respect.

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